- Nesve Yayalar

- Feb 21
- 4 min read
Many people believe that if their core feels unstable, weak, or painful, they just need to “do more abs.” I believed that too — until my own body taught me otherwise. After multiple pregnancies and years of staying active, I developed weakness in my abdominal wall that eventually led to diastasis recti and a small hernia. Not because I was inactive or careless —but because my deep core system wasn’t fully connected. I wasn’t breathing and moving in a way that truly supported my body from the inside out. That experience completely changed how I understand and teach core health today.
Your Core Is More Than “Abs”. Your true core is a three-dimensional support system, not just the front of your belly. It includes: The diaphragm (your main breathing muscle). The pelvic floor (your base of support). Deep abdominal muscles. The psoas and lower back stabilizers. When these muscles work together, your body feels strong, stable, and resilient. When they don’t, other muscles take over. This is called compensation. You may feel: “My core feels weak.” “I can’t stabilize.” “My back or hips are always tight.” “My abs won’t turn on.” But very often, the real issue isn’t weakness. It’s disconnection.
The diaphragm and Transverse Abdominis (TVA) attach directly to the spine, creating stability through breath.
How the Nervous System Plays a Role. Over the years, I’ve been fortunate to learn from amazing therapists and movement specialists from around the world. Through my training in NeuroKinetic Therapy, I learned something powerful: Sometimes muscles don’t work well — not because they are weak — but because the brain isn’t sending them clear signals. This can happen due to: Past injuries, Pregnancy or surgery, Repetitive habits, Chronic stress, Health conditions, Even emotional or personality patterns. When the brain stops trusting certain muscles, it shifts the workload elsewhere. That’s when pain, instability, and chronic tension begin.
Brain–Spine–Muscle Communication Pathway

Diaphragm of the Transverse Abdominis (TVA) attaching directly to the spine

The Science of Reconnection
Rebuilding your core isn't about doing more sit-ups. It's about retraining your nervous system to engage the deep stabilizing muscles of the trunk. I focus on neurokinetic education to help you regain this vital awareness.
My Personal Healing Journey has been layered and deeply educational. After my second pregnancy, I experienced diastasis recti and incontinence. Later, over time, I developed a small hernia due to weakened connective tissue and lack of deep core connection. At first, I did what many people do — I tried to “strengthen” my abs. But it wasn’t enough. Through NeuroKinetic Therapy and deeper understanding of breathing and neuromuscular coordination, I learned how to truly reconnect my core from the inside out. That work helped me heal, regain control, and feel strong again. Most recently, going through my hernia repair reminded me once more: Healing isn’t about pushing harder. It’s about reconnecting smarter. Now, as I recover, I’m rebuilding my core slowly, intentionally, and with respect for my body. This is my next chapter of healing — and one I’m grateful to understand so deeply. And now, I teach this same approach to my clients every day.
In my sessions, I don’t guess. I test. Using NeuroKinetic Therapy and movement assessment, I look at: Which muscles are overworking and compensating. Which muscles are underactive or disconnected. How your breathing affects your stability. How your core responds to movement and load. How your nervous system organizes posture and balance. Then we gently reset the nervous system and retrain proper coordination. Instead of forcing strength, we restore communication between the brain and body. That’s when real, lasting change happens.
A Simple Practice You Can Try Today
Diaphragm–TVA Coordination Breathing
This exercise restores the connection between the diaphragm and the transverse abdominis (TVA), allowing the deep core to work in natural coordination with your breath.
Breathe in slowly through your nose and feel the ribs expand softly in all directions — side, back, and front — creating a 360° expansion without forcing.
As you breathe out through your mouth, allow the abdomen to gently soften and draw inward naturally — not gripping or bracing, just reconnecting.
This practice improves spinal stability, supports pelvic floor function, and restores proper core coordination — particularly following pregnancy, surgery, injury, chronic pain conditions, or persistent structural and postural imbalances, including scoliosis and asymmetrical movement patterns.



Transverse Abdominis (TVA) Activation with Exhalation
Take a soft breath in through your nose and allow your ribs to expand naturally.
Then slowly breathe out through your mouth, making a gentle “shhh” sound.As you exhale, feel the lower abdomen softly draw inward and slightly upward — like gently zipping up from the pelvis toward the navel.
The movement should feel subtle, not forced.No gripping. No sucking in.Just a gentle connection as the breath leaves your body.
This is how the TVA activates naturally.This is where deep core support begins.

Ready to Begin Your Healing Journey?
These sessions focus on NeuroKinetic Therapy (NKT), integrated with clinical massage, postural, and alignment-based work and therapeutic exercise, to address the root causes of pain and movement dysfunction.
If you’re looking for personalized assessment and long-term results, this is the right place to start.





